If you suffer from chronic illness, chances are you are going to run out of energy before you get through your list. Is there anyone in the family you can enlist to help you through your chores? If you have the money, can you hire someone to clean house or run errands?
Get your husbands to grocery shop (or better yet, use an online delivery service). Get your kids to decorate the tree. Ask your brother to mop the floor. When people realize you need help, they’ll be willing to get you a hand.
It’s okay to ask for help. There is nothing wrong with admitting that you can’t do it all yourself. Things will go alot faster when more hands are busy.